Is it possible........

Is it possible to have sex with a friend ONLY once or twice, and still be friends with them in future? Or do you think there would be a few emotional ties that would complicate or change your friendship?

hmm...can i volunteer for this? :leghump:










and yes, i think its possible. how long have you two been friends before hand? I got pretty serious with a close friend of mine, then she moved away, and we are still very close, in fact just got off the phone with her about 30 minutes ago.

If it stops at just a couple times then yes..

Well..... its actually not me........ its my bf



I found out last night that he had sex with 2 of his friends...... one of which he is still great friends with, and i knwo for a FACT that nothing is going with them, but now it really makes me feel weird. BC this girl has always been kinda flaky......... shes SOOOOO SMART but around guys she is a complete moron!!! I cant stand it. I dont know, I know i have nothing to worry about, but it makes me feel like maybe there was something more, or they think of each other in a sexual way now....... maybe even still go back and think about having sex with them and what it was like

While you two were in a relationship or before hand?

its possible to be firends after, but it really depends how yall were before. i have a very close female freind that i haven't fd, if we did, our relationship would end up being for the worse because of how we are right now. i value our firendship more than 1 nite of fun

No not while he was with me....... a few years before, but he just told me this the other night, and she calls him to hang out all the time.... and i really dont mind that they hang out at all, bc they were friends before me and i have no right to say anything in terms of him not being her friend. But it just bugs me to know they had sex once..... and are friends still. Because what makes it "ok" to have sex with a friend? there has to be some sort of attraction there right? maybe they were just horny i dont know. but i also dont like knowing that while we are all hanging out with people that shes seen him naked....... or that hes seen her naked. Its just something i cant help but to think about..... and unfortunately im the kind of girl who thinks about something until it drives me nuts.


Thanks for letting me rant!!

:lol:

Alcohol = Sex with a friend...don't ask :jest:

Yes, I still have a few "friends" that I talk with every once in a while. My last GF didn't like the fact that I still had friends that were girls that I was with at one time. She was very protective and jealous. My current GF is wonderful, very understanding and knows that I have just friends. She is even great about taking pics of other girls for this site. It's working out quite well that we have an "understanding" of each other.

i say who cares. if a relationship is goign to work you have to forget about eachother's past, period.

and the answer is yes, i'm friends with people i've burned some calories with. no strings attatched sex usually works that way, you don't get emotional about it so you stay friends.

just gonna drive yourself batty IMO, don't worry about the bullshit ya know.

i mean look at Microzon and StoleIT, they **** ALL the time and they are great friends still.

i mean look at Microzon and StoleIT, they **** ALL the time and they are great friends still.

U whore! And let it still be known I have yet to meet the ass pounding swabbie known as John...and dreading the day that I do...

sorry i forgot i mean to say rampant phone sex

what the **** was i thinking i'm so embarassed now

Now look at you two homo's. You gotta go and turn it into a high flying flamer post battle. Damn Illinois male's don't even know their own sexual preference!

So your 100% gay now John? :rainbow:

Yes, you turned me. I mean, how can I resist someone that looks like this:

http://www.mpedrick.net/gallery/albums/jlee/DSCF0279.sized.jpg

:grin2: :jest: :leghump: :drool: :naughty:

:jest:

yes see some people here actually work on their own cars, wheres ur proof? :mrgreen:

don't u mean some people(you) call other people(me) to work on their cars because they(you) don't know what in the **** they are doing and other people(me) do.

just to clarify and all

It was 50/50 bizatch :drive:

Hahaha...yes, that IS what he means Sean. :grin2:

that 50 percent neal is referring to of course pertains to handing me tools and opening me a fresh beer now and then, he got good at that.

Ha, you forgetting the day's you couldn't make it? But damn now you got me thinking about Corona...I need one of those... :chug:

Great conversation changer

getting threads off topic is one of my many talents

Its rude too!!!!!!!!!! :offtopic:


JK!!!!!!!! i love you bc you are from chicago like me and cool neal!

Nobody loves ME ! :cry:

John.... it's just something you are going to have to deal with



I'm really sorry. :mrgreen:

Big MEANIE! No hairy chest for YOU!! :judge:

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!! :naughty:



I LOVE YOUR HAIRY CHEST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, tell me how you really feel ! Sorry but I'm taken....SO, no hairy chest for you!! :grin2:

Damn

rude? i prefer to call it entertainment, thanks :grin2: